Saturday, August 4, 2012

Video: Tim Hawkins sings Chick-fil-A

Just for fun:  a Chick-fil-A story with no reference to same-sex marriage! 




And Hawkins' newer version with a reference to Chick-fil-A president Dan Cathy:


I bet Yesterday does seem far away for CEO Dan Cathy.


Pro-gay activists ‘cannot redesign the hearts of children’


Dale O’Leary’s article “The loss that may not speak its name” notes that children raised by same-gender parents face unique challenges.
A study entitled, My Daddy’s Name in Donor, by Marquardt, Glenn and Clark, found that children conceived by artificial insemination by donor (AID), including those born to lesbian couples, fare worse than those raised by their biological parents on important outcomes such as depression, delinquency and substance abuse.” 
Donor conceived children differ from adopted children, Marquardt and colleagues write, in that they “know that the parents raising them are also the ones who intentionally denied them a relationship with at least one of their biological parents. The pain they might feel was caused not by some distant birth parent who gave them up, but by the parent who cares for them every day.” When asked if they worried that their mother would feel angry or hurt if they tried to get more information about or have a relationship with the sperm donor, 44 per cent children conceived by AID for lesbian couples answered “yes”. 
 
Pro-gay researchers Judith Stacey and Timothy Biblarz reviewed the same studies referenced by the APA and found that, contrary to the claims of the gay activists, children of lesbian parents were different; for example, they were more likely to experiment with same-sex relationships than those raised by a father and mother.

An article by Barbara Eisold, "Recreating Mother” gives us insight into the problems created by surrogate mothering for men in same-sex relationships. "Nick" was conceived for a male couple, who hired a nanny to care for the boy. When Nick was two, the couple felt that the nanny had become too emotionally involved with the family, and she was fired. They hired another nanny, who was replaced six months later by a third. By the time Nick was four, he was suffering from profound psychological problems. He wanted to "buy" a mother. The therapist engaged to treat him writes: 
How do we explain why this child, the son of a male couple, seemed to need to construct a woman – "Mother" – with whom he could play the role of loving boy/man? How did such an idea enter his mind? What inspired his intensity on the subject? 
The answer is tragically obvious: little boys need mothers. 
These cases provide anecdotal evidence that children are not as able to adapt to "family diversity" as easily as gay activists claim. Activists can change the laws, they can modify public opinion over time, but they cannot redesign the hearts of children or restructure their fundamental needs.


Support pro-gender marriage

Friday, August 3, 2012

America’s marriage choice: Sodomy or moms?


Sex advice columnist Dan Savage demeans women when he says they sh** babies.  Savage is lauded as a spokesman for the gay community and goes to the White House to celebrate LGBT pride. 
Chick-fil-A CEO Dan Cathy honors women when he says we are married to our first wives” and that he supports the Biblical definition of family.  Social media (and certain politicians) go haywire. 
Savage supports same-sex marriage.  He values sexual diversity.
Cathy honors traditional marriage.  He respects gender diversity. 
When it comes to marriage, what will we choose:  sexual diversity or gender diversity?
Pro-gender advocates believe gender-integration is crucial to marriage, the bedrock of culture.  This allows children to grow up with both a mother and a father.  They believe it makes more sense to base marriage law on gender, which is biological and immutable, rather than sexual orientation, which is fluid and subjective.  (The Isabella Miller case highlights how relying on changeable sexual orientation for stability can be tragic for a child.)
In contrast, the born-this-way believers have elevated sexual orientation to such an extent that it has become more important than sexual gender.  They claim the union of 2 men is equal to the marriage of 1 man and 1 woman.  The fact that the men have same-sex attraction is more important than their gender which disqualifies them for marriage in 42 states.  They want to eliminate the gender-diversity requirement in our marriage laws to accommodate the sexual diversity of the LGBT community.  Anyone who disagrees with them is “anti-gay.”
Nowadays believing marriage should be gender-integrated causes a boycott.  How did gender get such a bad rap?
America’s fear of alienating the 1.4% of the population who have same-sex attraction has led to this convoluted thinking that Catholic universities with same-sex dorms are sued, but promoting same-sex marriage means you’re enlightened?
No matter how hard we try, we can’t pretend forever that gender doesn’t matter.  The singer Sir Elton John recently made headlines when he acknowledged that it will be “heartbreaking” when his son grows up and realizes he has no mummy.  Despite this admission, Elton John and his male “spouse” are actively seeking to hire another surrogate mother.  When it comes to marriage, Elton John values sexual diversity over gender diversity, despite the negative impact on his son.
What about America?  What will we decide is more important to our future: sterile sex or procreation?  What should public schools teach children:  sex between men or sex between genders?  What do we want the next generation to value more in marriage:  gender-segregation or gender-integration? 
The choice is clear, either we honor sexual diversity in marriage, or gender diversity.  In other words, America must decide which it respects more:  sodomy or moms.

Thursday, August 2, 2012

'Attack on parental rights is exactly the whole point of the bill' banning reparative therapy for children with unwanted same-sex attraction


Why do liberals think changing your gender is good and should be encouraged, but changing sexual orientation is bad and should be outlawed?
The author of a California bill that would forbid minors from seeking therapy to overcome unwanted feelings of same-sex attraction has admitted his intention was to undermine parental rights.
“The attack on parental rights is exactly the whole point of the bill, because we don’t want to let parents harm their children,” said State Senator Ted Lieu, D-Torrance. 
Senate Bill 1172 would ban anyone under 18 from receiving reparative or sexual orientation conversion therapy, even if requested by the teens or their parents. The bill would label the treatment “unprofessional conduct” and “therapeutic deception.”  
The bill passed the state Senate in June. It is now being considered in the state Assembly.  
After likening the therapy to allowing children to smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol, the 43-year-old Taiwanese-born legislator said, ““We have these laws to stop parents from hurting their kids. Preventive therapy hurts children, so this bill allows us to stop parents from hurting their children.” 

“There is a widespread national attempt, and there has been for many years, to outlaw reparative therapy of any kind,” Dr. Michael Brown, the host of the nationally syndicated radio program “The Line of Fire,” told LifeSiteNews.com. 
“The idea that a homosexual can change undermines the entire alleged civil rights nature of the gay activist movement,” he told LifeSiteNews. “Therefore, therapy for this is considered to be harmful and destructive.” 
Is this bill designed to protect children or to protect the gay rights activists who claim gays are born that way?


Defending pro-gender marriage is good business: Record sales on Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day


ABC News reports that the fast-food chain garnered “record-setting” sales on Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day when thousands flocked to the eatery to support pro-gender marriage and company CEO Dan Cathy.

Chick-fil-A posted "record-setting" sales on Wednesday as thousands of people swarmed the chicken chain for Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day after the chain's chief made anti-gay comments. 
"While we don't release exact sales numbers, we can confirm reports that it was a record-setting day," Steve Robinson, Chick-fil-A's executive vice president of marketing, said in a statement.
Did you notice the media referred to Cathy's support of traditional marriage as “anti-gay”?  Apparently ABC News believes supporting marriage between one man and one woman is ipso facto “anti-gay.”   

Meanwhile, National Organization for Marriage is posting photos and stories of the day some commenters are calling a “game-changer” for pro-gender marriage.  Rick DeLano noted:

Yup. This is the one. Who knows why? The Cathys' simply stood up and would not be backed down.Whatever reason, this is the game-changer.  The issue now becomes a sociological phenomenon, one which will decide the next election.

Defending pro-gender marriage is good business: Masterpiece Cakeshop update


Despite death threats and pro-gay media, Masterpiece Cakeshop in Lakewood says business doubled after they defended pro-gender marriage by declining to make a wedding cake for a gender-exclusive couple.


The owner of a cake shop in Lakewood, Colorado said that, following a refusal to provide a wedding cake for a homosexual couple his business has more than doubled. 
Jack Phillips, the owner of Masterpiece Cakeshop, told local media that this wasn’t the first time he had turned away homosexuals seeking wedding cakes, but it is the first time his stand for Christian principles has resulted in so much media attention and some death threats. 

Phillips explained that since 1993 the family owned and operated business has refused about half-a-dozen requests for same-sex wedding cakes. However, on Sunday he said he was forced to call police because of several death threats over the latest refusal. 

The situation developed on July 19 when two homosexuals entered the shop and announced they were getting “married” in Massachusetts and wanted to order a wedding reception cake for their reception in Colorado. When Phillips refused, one of the pair, 28-year-old Dave Mullins, is reported to have said, “F*** you and your homophobic cake shop,” and directed an obscene gesture at the owner before leaving. 
Phillips remarked that he is not “homophobic” and does not refuse service to anyone based on their sexual orientation. He does however draw the line on catering to same-sex “marriage.” Colorado does not recognize same-sex “marriage” or same-sex civil unions. 
“If gays come in and want to order birthday cakes or any cakes for any occasion, graduations, or whatever, I have no prejudice against that whatsoever,” Phillips said. “It’s just the wedding cake, not the people, not their lifestyle.” 
“We would close down that bakery before we closed our beliefs, so that may be what it comes to … we’ll see,” Phillips concluded. 
Denver Westword reported that, “Some online commentors (sic) have advocated violence against Masterpiece Cakeshop.”

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

San Francisco is mission territory for marriage: Cordileone to the rescue


Patriot Post has an excellent article by Terence Jeffrey about same-sex marriage, the homosexual movement, and Salvatore J. Cordileone’s new assignment:  speak the truth in love as new archbishop of San Francisco.
The truth: Traditional family life cannot survive in a culture seeking to force normalization and moral approbation of homosexual behavior. 
The reason: Homosexual behavior is wrong. It violates the natural law. To say two men or two women can marry one another is like saying two plus two is five: It is not the way God made things. To tell people, including children, that they must assent to the government claiming that two men or two women can marry one another is like telling them they must assent to the government telling them two plus two is five. Cordileone's record shows him to be man of compassion, conviction and courage. 
"In places where marriage's core meaning has been altered through legal action, officials are beginning to target for punishment those believers and churches that refuse to adapt," he said in a letter to the Senate Judiciary Committee last November. "Any nonconforming conduct and even expressions of disagreement, based simply on support for marriage as understood since time immemorial, are wrongly being treated as if they harmed society, and somehow constituted a form of evil equal to racism."

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Video: Gay rights activists target wedding cake baker in Colorado


Colorado baker Jack Phillips refuses to celebrate the “marriage” of two men by baking their wedding cake even though they are prepared to spend over $1,000.
“If gays come in and want to order birthday cakes or any cakes for any occasion, graduations, or whatever, I have no prejudice against that whatsoever,” Phillips said. “It’s just the wedding cake, not the people, not their lifestyle.”
“We would close down the bakery before we compromise our beliefs," said Phillips.
It might come to that.  Advocates of anti-gender marriage are calling for a boycott of the Lakewood business and Phillips has received over a thousand emails.
Who knew defending gender-integrated marriage would be so controversial?

Same-sex marriage: ‘unconstitutional government test of religion’ and ‘scientific misconduct’


Some advocates of same-sex marriage are so biased, they don’t even realize when they are trampling on others’ freedom of speech and freedom of religion.  In a Chicago Tribune piece, David Byrne cites two examples:  The Chick-fil-A affair and the study by sociologist Mark Regnerus.
First Ward Ald.Proco "Joe" Moreno's attempt to keep a fast-food chain out of his Northwest Side ward because the company's boss opposes gay marriage is so patently unconstitutional that it hardly merits discussion. 
But ignoring this stunning assault on two First Amendment rights gives it undeserved credence. By trying to block a Chick-fil-A restaurant from locating in his ward because of company President Dan Cathy's biblical view against same-sex marriage, Moreno is subjecting the chain to an unconstitutional government test of religion. Moreno also would use the power of government to shut down Cathy's free speech rights, punishing him economically for speaking his mind.
In a separate incident, associate professor Mark Regnerus analyzed the outcomes for children raised by a parent who had had a same-sex relationship.
In a Slate article, he [Regnerus] summarized his peer-reviewed research that appeared earlier in the Social Science Research journal: On 25 of 50 different "outcomes" the study evaluated, "the children of women who've had same-sex relationships fare quite differently than those in stable, biologically intact mom-and-pop families. … 
"Even after including controls for age, race, gender and things like being bullied as a youth, or the gay-friendliness of the state in which they live, such respondents were more apt to report being unemployed, less healthy, more depressed, more likely to have cheated on a spouse or partner, smoke more pot, had trouble with the law, report more male and female sex partners, more sexual victimization, and were more likely to reflect negatively on their childhood family life, among other things."
Normally a study that raises questions would prompt more scientific research delving deeper into the issue.  But when it comes to the gay rights activists, instead of more studies on gender-segregated child rearing, they would rather investigate Regnerus himself for daring to contradict their deeply held belief in same-sex marriage.
While Regnerus' social science credentials appear impeccable, it's just a start of academic Star Chamber proceedings against him for daring to step beyond the given wisdom. Three of his colleagues published an op-ed on The Huffington Post, charging that his "reckless" research "besmirched" the university. He is to appear before a panel of university officials that's investigating him for "scientific misconduct."
Isn’t attacking the messenger a form of  “reckless” and “scientific misconduct”?
Why can't America have a debate about the merits of pro-gender marriage versus same-gender marriage without ad hominem attacks?

Monday, July 30, 2012

Same-sex marriage is anti-gender marriage



If we redefine marriage to include same-gender couples, we’re saying there is no important difference between the partnership of two men, and the union of one man and one woman.  In other words, women are disposable.  They can be excluded from marriage and replaced with men.  This is gender discrimination.  This eliminates femininity and motherhood from the basic family unit.  This is anti-gender.  


Example:  Sex advice columnist and SSM advocate Dan Savage likes to refer to a woman's birth canal as the "hole that sh**s babies."  If a Christian like Chick-fil-A president Dan Cathy uttered such a sexist slur, the media would rip into him.  But because Savage speaks for the gay community, he gets a media pass and an invite to the White House.
At the same time, allowing unigender couples to marry means that two women can marry each other, eliminating men from the family.  Again, this is gender segregation and gender discrimination.  This is anti-gender.
Because same-sex marriage is gender-exclusive, government forms need to be changed.  Gender-specific words such as "bride" and "groom" are eliminated and replaced with the  gender-neutral and less-inspiring word "spouse."  "Mother" and "father" are old-school; it's "Parent A" or "Parent B."


Example:  Harvard College recently hired Vanidy "Van" Bailey as the first permanent director of bisexual, gay, lesbian, transgender, and queer student life.  According to the Harvard Crimson,  "Bailey prefers not to be referred to by any gendered pronoun."  For only $54,496 per year, your son or daughter ... child, can learn that using gender-specific words such as he and she is taboo.  
Although liberals prefer to call it marriage "equality,” how is intentionally depriving a child of a lifelong relationship with her mother “equality”?  Is separating genders in marriage the best method to foster tolerance in children?  Do we really want to go back to the “separate but equal” mentality?  
Who the heck wants to be called "Parent B"?
Before we self-righteously vote for same-sex marriage, it’s crucial to examine the ramifications.  Same-sex marriage denigrates gender and denies developing children  gender-diversity in the home.  SSM advocates talk about the loving and committed relationship it honors until death do them part, but by its very nature, same-sex marriage automatically deprives children from having a loving and committed relationship with both a mother and a father for their entire lives.  Same-sex marriage promotes an anti-gender mentality.
Read the labels carefully. 
Only 1.4% of the population has same-sex attraction.  But we all have a gender.  
Defend pro-gender marriage.

Preliminary Democrat platform supports anti-gender marriage


Endorsing gender-segregation in families, Democrats drafted language to include same-sex marriage on their party's platform.  
Support for gay marriage is part of the Democratic Party’s preliminary platform for the fall, Representative Barney Frank’s office confirmed to the Globe Monday. 
Democrats’ platform drafting committee, which includes Frank, met in Minneapolis over the weekend and agreed on draft language that would put a major political party officially on-board with legal same-sex marriage for the first time in US history. 
The language will be considered by the full Democratic platform committee, which meets in Detroit between Aug. 10 and 12. If approved, an endorsement of gay marriage will be put to vote at the Democratic National Convention in Charlotte in September.
Meanwhile, Republicans continue to support pro-gender marriage. 

Sunday, July 29, 2012

Sarah Palin calls Chick-fil-A a ‘great business’ triggering snark attacks nationwide


It’s come to this.  Supporting a business that defends pro-gender marriage causes a knee-jerk reaction in liberals who automatically assume you are homophobic, giving them the right to indulge in a favorite hobby:  judging. 
On Friday evening Sarah Palin tweeted:  “Stopped by Chick-fil-A in The Woodlands to support a great business.”  And comments have been flying ever since.  Huffington Post already has over 9,000.
Let’s remember, this all started when Chick-fil-A president Dan Cathy merely expressed support for, “family — the biblical definition of the family unit.” 
That’s right.  That was the seemingly innocuous comment that caused liberals to have a snark attack about which puppets will endorse Chick-fil-A (not Muppets!) and which mayors would block a Chick-fil-A from opening, (Boston Mayor Menino, Chicago Mayor Emanuel) and which mayor would defend Cathy’s right to express an opinion, (NYC Mayor Bloomberg) and which mayor would evolve on this issue and say he never said Chick-fil-A couldn’t open in Chicago (Emanuel).
Never afraid of a fray, Palin sided with gender-integrated marriage, tweeted her support of Chick-fil-A, and watched the name-calling begin.
The left, who consider themselves tolerant, inclusive, and loving called Palin a “bitch,” and, with a nod to diversity, “dumb bitch.” Showing how inclusive they can be, they generously included Sarah’s husband Todd as well, referring to the two as “hateful ignorant asses.”
Ok kids, what have we learned from this?
  • Supporting the traditional family is hateful and anti-gay
  • Supporting a business that supports the traditional family is homophobic 
  • Supporting gender-segregated marriage is inclusive, tolerant, and loving 
  • Name-calling is the best argument in support of same-sex marriage